Here's my inspirational read of the week. What's yours?
In Praise of Slowness : How A Worldwide Movement Is Challenging the Cult of Speed by Carl Honore
Those who know me know that the corporate culture of speed and information overload stresses me out to no end. In fact, I'm wondering if there should be a new medical diagnosis for information age-induced anxiety because I think I have it!
Those who know me also know I am no Luddite. I love technology. Writing about microelectronics is what has paid my mortgage for years. I couldn't function without my Palm Pilot and I met my life partner on the internet. I can't remember how I earned a degree in English literature plunking out long term papers armed only with a library card, a portable Sears electric typewriter, a ruler so I could figure out how to space the footnotes, and those infamous white-out strips. This techno-nerd is grateful for the business opportunities and growth the internet, blogging, online networking, and podcasting have provided for her. Darn, I love technology!
What I don't love is feeling forced to process all the information that comes flowing at me right this minute. I periodically refuse to use instant messaging software in my full time job. It distracts me and I find it invasive to my creative process as a writer (yes, even technical writers have a creative process). I believe that co-workers abuse it and depend on it to the extreme.
I believe that as Americans in the 21st century many of us believe we deserve to have it all and we deserve to have it right now. We don't know how to do nothing. Doing nothing is frowned upon as laziness. We are impatient. We don't like to wait. Ever try to meditate and find that it's impossible to just empty your mind and observe what comes floating in? The more you try to empty your mind, the more your to-do list yells at you? I do believe that to make room for new ideas and thoughts, we have to periodically empty out the crap by doing nothing.
For me, slowness isn't about moving at a snail's pace. It's about mindful moving one small step at a time. It's about balance. Years ago, I ran my first marathon in an attempt to exorcise the "Ann is not athletic" gremlins. I finished in 4 hours. Not fast, not terribly slow, but steady, dependable and consistent. I could have run 100 miles at that pace. It was the right pace for me.
A few years later, my daughter was born. She was two weeks overdue by the time she finally decided to arrive (she's a slow and steady soul too). Twenty-seven hours of slow labor and I gave birth at home in the middle of the living room, drug-free and intervention-free. I even refused to read the experts' books about pregnancy and breastfeeding because I figured my body probably knew how to do it without reading a book. It was the right and healthy pace for me and my child. Childbirth was a defining moment in my life that gave me the courage to begin listening to and trusting my own inner voice.
I want to grow my business and live my life like I ran the marathon and like I give birth. My way. Is it possible to grow your business slooooooowly and achieve financial wealth my way in today's speed demon culture? I don't know yet. I'll have to get back to you on that.
I didn't know until recently that there were others like me out there until I read Honore's book. Now the slow movement is popping up everywhere, particularly as it pertains to food (http://slowfood.com) which delights and inspires me as a specialty food business owner whose product is designed around sensual and slow enjoyment of a special, simple, and elegant treat.
Now I'm applying the principles to my business growth and my personal life. I'm not after explosive. I'm after meaningful, debt-free, consistent, dependable, and enduring.
Of course, I realize that slow isn't right for everyone. One friend suggests humans are adapting to the increasing streams of information and demands on our time. Our children may be far better at multitasking without stress than we are. Who am I to say if that's a good thing or not? Time will tell.
What I've gotten from this book is that I am not alone. We still have a limited life span and there are still 24 hours in a day for all of us. Our bodies still require sleep and nutrition. How we fill the rest of the time is a choice that we all must make for ourselves.
I'm looking for the balance between sorting through all the information that flies my way and consulting the wise slow soul within who knows exactly how to process the most important pieces when she slows down and listens. I can't listen to my intution and physically move at warp speed simultaneously.
If you're a slow entrepreneur or if you're afflicted with "information age-induced anxiety" like me, read this book. Arm yourself with a highlighter and read slowly. Savor the words as you would a special meal. Chew slowly on each word and observe the plethora of flavors and textures without judgment or expectation. Accompany with your favorite beverage. Delight in that full-without-being-stuffed feeling that all is as it should be.
And have some Vermont shortbread if you have room for dessert.